Stop contacting him

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The only thing that worried me was that I was always the one initiating contact with him. It made me wonder what would happen if I just stopped bothering, so I tried it. Without my effort, he took a whole week to get in touch. It showed me just how far down I was on his list of priorities.

He liked being chased.

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Taking time away from him showed me that loud and clear. No more of that crap! I decided to give him what he gave me and nothing more. It was a tough one but I decided to talk to him only after he initiated contact. I also started communicating like he did. For example, he never said that he was looking forward to seeing me when he made plans to hang out, so I stopped doing that. I cut out all those smiley-faced emoticons he avoided and texted one-word answers sometimes, just like he would.

He was chilled while I was chasing. He was so relaxed and really just going with the flow. I stopped replying to his messages. It was a huge wakeup call, so I decided Stop contacting him cut all contact again — even if he messaged me first this time. It was really hard. He pulled out all the stops. It sounds crazy, but he stepped up in a big way when I stopped talking to him and replying to his texts.

Stop contacting him

He even called me a few times, which I ignored. He was only interested in having me around now that he was afraid he was losing me, and sadly, I fell for it. I believed his lies. The cycle repeated itself. I started texting him again and he showered me with attention for a few days. Ugh, it sucked, but I was angrier at myself than at him.

I broke it Stop contacting him for good. I learned my lesson with this shady guy, so I cut off all contact and this time I stuck to my plan. It was ridiculous to stick around accepting crumbs from this guy, because I deserved much more than what he was giving me. Without the distraction of his texts, I could finally focus on my life without him and put my energy into relationships and activities that were healthier for me. Doing that with this guy showed me what I was really dealing with and how much of a time-waster he was so I could finally dump him for good.

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Stop contacting him

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